The name of a provider of Divorce mediation services is often readily available through your attorney. In order to become an attorney, an individual needs to graduate from college, complete law school, and pass a bar examination specific to the state where he or she hopes to practice. Additionally, most states require attorneys to pass an ethical examination. The process is arduous and challenging. Qualities and qualifications most important in choosing a divorce attorney are ethics, experience, and responsiveness to client’s needs. A person must be comfortable with his chosen counsel, believing that his or her attorney is not only able to meet his or her needs, but is also able to clearly explain the process while willing to take the time to answer questions along the way.
At the end of the process, the attorney is licensed to dispense advice or speak on behalf of people to advance their position. Family Law is a specific area, which requires an extensive knowledge of the law and demands patience. There is a standing joke that the difference between a criminal litigant and divorce litigant is that the criminal litigant is on his or her best behavior during the process while the divorce client is on his or her worst. A good divorce lawyer will refer the client to a competent therapist or at least suggest therapy during the process, as the unavoidable stress of a divorce has been seen to have untold physical and emotional effects on people. The more emotionally healthy a client is, the easier it is to settle the case.
A family law mediator is typically an attorney who has had family law experience. In addition to training as an attorney, the family law mediator is also trained as a mediator in separate training. The best way to locate such an individual through an experienced family law attorney who can recommend a family law mediator to you. A license to practice mediation is not required, so there is no regulation as there is for an attorney who must be licensed in Massachusetts. Some states regulate the mediation profession but Massachusetts does not. Some mediators are trained as psychologists who may be helpful for a parenting plan but if parties are seeking to resolve financial issues, it is always best to select an attorney with family law experience.
A divorce mediator should also have experience in divorce related cases and mediations, be ethical and have an ability to explain. Legal training for a divorce mediator is helpful, but specifically marital divorce experience is particularly important since the practice of divorce law requires not only skill and knowledge but the ability to understand how to assist parties. A provider of Divorce mediation services as provided by a family law attorney is often an optimal method of locating a divorce mediator.